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Post by Addison's girl on Oct 8, 2012 19:12:50 GMT -5
Why were they so afraid of their feelings towards each other? Was one reason because they worked together..she was his boss..? Or was it just pure emotion and fear that the other didn't love as much, as deep?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 9, 2012 1:55:13 GMT -5
From her side maybe the working together thing (not so much the boss/employee thing) played a part... but if so, then only a small part. It had more to do with the other reasons you mentioned - the fear of the other one not loving them back with the same intensity, the insecurities (David: does she think I'm not good enough, will she ever accept me for who I really am; Tess & Jillian both kicked me in the balls; Maddie: am I only a fling and even if not, is he capable of a steady relationship). I think also on Maddie's part the problem was very much the control issue. She was used to always be in control - of her life, her career, her business, her emotions. With David, she lost that control on many levels: her emotions went over the top because she loved him so much. Their different points of view on many things made her question her own convictions a few times (about spontaneity, religion, morals, things that really matter - you name it) and that also set her life upside down. And then, of course, that passion she had never known before. Her body and physical needs were taking control over her mind because she craved him so much. She felt he had power over her and that frightened her. Those are my 2 Cent  |
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Post by Addison's girl on Oct 9, 2012 5:11:18 GMT -5
Yes I agree! I could not have said it better!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 9, 2012 6:09:10 GMT -5
Yes I agree! I could not have said it better! Can I use that against you some time? ;D |
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Post by Addison's girl on Oct 9, 2012 16:47:00 GMT -5
Sure! Go ahead! LOL LOL
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Post by Addison's girl on Oct 9, 2012 16:51:38 GMT -5
And he did have power over her. Look how he could seduce her just with his words..now that is skill! LOL She was weak for him even before they made love he could persuade her to do things she didn't want to do..but when the sex entered the picture she was blown away and I think she was mortified and frightened that David Addison, immature, lewd, crude etc. had that that much power and control over her while she felt she had little control over him.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2012 3:11:45 GMT -5
Yes I think the control issue had a huge impact on her. I think even if she was more secure about him being in for the long haul, she would still have struggled with it.
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Post by Addison's girl on Oct 10, 2012 5:20:49 GMT -5
She needed to realize that she had control over him too..She made his loose his mind over her (hahah) too. He just didn't mind.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2012 8:57:39 GMT -5
Agree. It's all a take and give. She couldn't let herself fall.
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