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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 15:22:44 GMT -5
Why did David tell Maddie she didn't believe in passion? Of course, we know she needed to think things through etc. but is that what he meant? I thought he was hinting at her sexual nature.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2013 15:44:22 GMT -5
I think probably both - I mean, if you tend to think everything through over and over again, you are probably the type to let your brain rule your life... and by that have everything under a certain rational control. On the other hand, passion has a lot to do with letting go, with allowing yourself to lose control.
Maybe he meant something like that?
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 16:07:49 GMT -5
He wanted to be the one to make her lose control and face her passionate side. Little did he know that making her lose control would make her CRAZY and so damn insecure.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2013 16:17:53 GMT -5
Maybe he had an inkling of it, maybe that's what he meant. Of course he thought that if he managed to make her take that step and give in into passion, she would overcome those chains... he should have understood that it took more
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 16:38:22 GMT -5
Then if suspected he should have bent over backwards to make her feel secure in his love!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2013 17:07:56 GMT -5
They both should have compromised more.
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 17:10:30 GMT -5
True but we are not talking about compromise here. We are discussing Maddie's insecurities and David assauging her doubts.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2013 17:34:22 GMT -5
Well a conversation can take a turn LOL I agree, if he did all those things you have in mind - tell her he loved her, plan the perfect date, propose to her, whatever, her insecurities would probably have been less (I don't think though it would have made her tumble right into his arms or in a relationship, because I think there would have always been the control freak issue and her expectations about who she was supposed to be with). You are right here.
I was just adding my opinion about the bend backwards - in a relationship, not only one should have to do all the bending... okay, that sounded dirty now LOL
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 17:37:20 GMT -5
But if he is the one who knew, like you said, she would be skittish then he should have made sure to calm her fears. According to you he realized she may have qualms so he should have been the one to squash them. JMO
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2013 17:40:28 GMT -5
Yeah well but we mustn't forget that he wasn't so secure himself, that was the problem I think.
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Post by imdavidsgirl on Jan 20, 2013 18:01:46 GMT -5
But man should make woman secure I think no?
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 18:03:36 GMT -5
Yes the man should be the one to make a woman feel secure and loved and then she will pay him back with dividends. Most women don't want to be the ones to make the first move or declare their feelings first. Women want to be romanced and wooed.
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Post by imdavidsgirl on Jan 20, 2013 18:08:05 GMT -5
And the passion part I'm not sure about cause is it passionate to kill someone I don't think so . so maybe he was just saying smth to her like she isn't passionate about anything? she is very calm and cool ,you son't know what she loves in life no? . David wears passion on his sleeve for life at least if not love too to a pointof course cause he hides himself away a bit in love. You know the things he loves ,maddie you don't. If that make sense. Like with mcgillicudy and feeling love for someone in a weekend she lies no way ,not saying I believe in getting married in a weekn too it does happen so shes like love please! Maddie dates men who are boring so they sure as hell wont being passion to her life that's obvious too see. Why did she choose that? not sure I made sense! LOL
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 18:09:33 GMT -5
She chose those men and those feelings because the were SAFE! And David was unsafe and scary and made her unsure horny and nervous..which she hated lol well she liked the horny part I think
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Post by imdavidsgirl on Jan 20, 2013 18:12:47 GMT -5
Yes the man should be the one to make a woman feel secure and loved and then she will pay him back with dividends. Most women don't want to be the ones to make the first move or declare their feelings first. Women want to be romanced and wooed. Yes totally agree! If David couldn't do that for Maddie I don't blame her for not wanting to be with him. Not saying she depends on man to live but to extent its man job for certain things or ways to behave in a relationship like to say I love you a lot outside of bed and make her feel loved and secure. Maddie wanted that! David was strong man and should have been stronger for her if he truly loved her so passionately! I know he wasn't used to a woman like her but he didn't meet her yesterday no? He knew her! inside and out I believe!
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