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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 18:15:18 GMT -5
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 18:15:54 GMT -5
Doesn't say tell him!
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Post by imdavidsgirl on Jan 20, 2013 18:23:16 GMT -5
She chose those men and those feelings because the were SAFE! And David was unsafe and scary and made her unsure horny and nervous..which she hated lol well she liked the horny part I think Yes but did she want to be safe is that why? because of who she was maybe being a model? Learned not to trust people? When David broke through her walls , and yes I mean more than one type LOL she probably felt complete and so alive for first time in her life that she loved it and was so scared by it . Cause I do think she believed in a way David was not the right one for her yet he was the man who made her feel complete inside sexually and that was confusing for her? not sure.
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 20, 2013 18:30:00 GMT -5
Yes I agree. Not that he wasn't right for her just because of their upbringing but by how different they were from one another. He was lewd and crude and loud and overbearing and messy LOL and she did love him anyway but she knew these traits may drive her insane in the long run.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2013 6:51:05 GMT -5
Yes the man should be the one to make a woman feel secure and loved and then she will pay him back with dividends. Most women don't want to be the ones to make the first move or declare their feelings first. Women want to be romanced and wooed. I don't say a woman should make the first move. But you know how I feel about her encouraging him just a little more. Just a little. As I said, he was scared and insecure too, especially when he saw her with Sam.
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 21, 2013 7:50:43 GMT -5
She encouraged him with her looks and body language especially in the beginning of Season 3.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2013 11:57:46 GMT -5
She encouraged him with her looks and body language especially in the beginning of Season 3. As I said, I don't get why he didn't make a move then. But when he was ready to make that move, she wasn't very encouraging any more. He shouldn't have let himself distract by that, however his (maybe until then hidden) insecurity came through when he saw her with Mr. Perfect.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2013 12:00:56 GMT -5
Btw why do you think did she do that? Encourage him at the beginning of season 3? I mean, he had his reputation then too? Did she think he would be in for a serious relationship then - and what changed her mind later? Love to analyze this stuff!
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 21, 2013 14:08:34 GMT -5
I think she felt they only wound up together because of his competition with Sam and not due to his feelings. And even in IACM he wasn't forthcoming with his feelings. He didnt really even make a move on her. Things just happened. I think that is why she was suspicious of his true feelings and if he really was looking for commitment.
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 21, 2013 14:17:18 GMT -5
She even says that to David. And now there is Sam...
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 21, 2013 14:21:28 GMT -5
I say if their relationship had begun differently with a declaration of hus feelings she would have not been as crazy or insecure or ambivalent.
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Post by imdavidsgirl on Jan 21, 2013 14:30:44 GMT -5
She encouraged him with her looks and body language especially in the beginning of Season 3. As I said, I don't get why he didn't make a move then. But when he was ready to make that move, she wasn't very encouraging any more. He shouldn't have let himself distract by that, however his (maybe until then hidden) insecurity came through when he saw her with Mr. Perfect. But what kinda move did he really make? he didn't tell her how he felt he chickened out then and what they fought and he pulled her in and the had hot sex? that's no move. JMO
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Post by imdavidsgirl on Jan 21, 2013 14:50:51 GMT -5
I say if their relationship had begun differently with a declaration of hus feelings she would have not been as crazy or insecure or ambivalent. Yes agree. She knew they had hot wild sex together which is great but she needed more!
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Post by Addison's girl on Jan 21, 2013 15:13:13 GMT -5
exactly! He never told her I am madly wildly in love with you honey. How hot would that have been??
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Post by imdavidsgirl on Jan 21, 2013 15:20:44 GMT -5
exactly! He never told her I am madly wildly in love with you honey. How hot would that have been?? He should have said that no excuse! not hard to do! She needed some of her fears squashed!
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