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Post by Addison's girl on Jul 12, 2012 11:48:06 GMT -5
I hate that David buys furniture to make Annie happy but ddn't do it for Maddie! WHY?  ?? |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2012 15:06:43 GMT -5
Maybe because she never gave him the chance to make her happy LOL
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Post by Addison's girl on Jul 12, 2012 15:32:16 GMT -5
That would have made her happy. He had a whole month of chances. She would have been thrilled if he invited her over for dinner and he had furniture.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2012 15:42:20 GMT -5
When I look at the way she behaved and the negative attitude she transpired and transported from the get-go in To Heiress Human - and I must point out: not even 24 hour after the big bang - I highly doubt she gave him so many (real) chances. As I just said on the other thread, she threw in his face right away that they were just an affair.
Sure, she'd have liked it probably if he had bought furniture to please her, if he'd invited her over to his place for dinner. She just didn't have an encouraging way to show that. I'm sure he would have made more efforts had she made him understand better what she wanted.
A sad, long history of misunderstandings...
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Post by imdavidsgirl on Jul 12, 2012 18:11:08 GMT -5
there was no compromise on either end with both of them i think. if she showed more, if he showed more. they both needed to do and show more. I do hate that David bought the couch and stuff. it should have been him and maddie making out on it and having sex too LOL Then annie with her money goes out and buys him all pots and pans and stuff ugh hated that too. She knew him like a few days?
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Post by Addison's girl on Jul 12, 2012 18:35:54 GMT -5
And Annie cooked him lamb.
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Post by Addison's girl on Jul 12, 2012 18:40:48 GMT -5
I guess we are seeing things differently.When Maddie threw out they were having an affair I think she wanted him to tell her hell no it wasn't an affair..he loved her forever..she wasn't easy I agree but he didn't give either..Then his next words were definitely going to make her feel more secure..about how a woman will be believe anything once you tell them you love them and he was only doing her a favor..sorry but they were both 12 year olds...
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Post by Deleted on Jul 13, 2012 4:01:58 GMT -5
Yes Sue, they were both 12 year olds, and of course I agree, David had it in his hands any time to change the situation if only he had said/done the right thing. And he wasn't easy to handle as well, that's true. In general, I think we can say both are to blame for what went wrong during their relationshipand afterwards, no doubt about that; but I still think that she had the bigger amount of mistakes to be blamed for, JMO of course. You might see it differently.
But still, I'm not sure that moment in THH she wanted him to say "no, we're more than an affair" - so arrogant, detached and cold was her demeanor in that scene (I've dissected it in that other thread). I watched the scene yesterday, and she was detached and cold. Surely, if he had been more firm and opposed right away - surely things would have gone differently. But I think it's totally understandable how he reacted in that moment. She hurt him deeply, thoroughly, and he wanted to keep his face and, yes, maybe hurt her back.
Seriously, in that scene in THH I can't blame him at all. Later - that's another thing. Should he have gone to Chicago? Sure. Should he have held her close no matter how hard she fought him after the miscarriage? Of course. But in that scene in THH, after all the crap she had given him? She deserved everything he leashed out at her. But I agree, had he kept superhumanly calm and wise, he could have turned the situation around.
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Post by Addison's girl on Jul 13, 2012 6:13:33 GMT -5
Maddie was at fault more than David but he needed to step up to the plate and act like a man not a boy. He should have put her in her place as soon as she uttered the word pact...
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Post by Deleted on Jul 13, 2012 6:19:41 GMT -5
Maddie was at fault more than David but he needed to step up to the plate and act like a man not a boy. He should have put her in her place as soon as she uttered the word pact... We can so totally agree on that! ;D ;D |
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Post by Addison's girl on Jul 13, 2012 6:31:51 GMT -5
And also one other thing..Maddie acting cold and detached is just Maddie. The way he hides his feelings under glibness she hides her feelings under coldness...JMO. I'm sure she wasn't cold a few minutes before when she was hitting hi css in bed with him..and that is what shook her up. She wasn't able to hide her passion and want from him in bed..therefore her mind told her to end it while her body craved him.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 13, 2012 6:41:21 GMT -5
You mean, cold and detached is Maddie when it comes to her own feelings; otherwise Maddie can be very temperamental, right? And you're right, I bet she wasn't cold a few minutes before; it was like you flipped some switch. And that was what shook and hurt him!
What also bothers me: because simply "it's just Maddie", he has to accept it and adapt himself to that? Is that the only excuse? Why is he always supposed to put up with her crap, with the argument "oh c'mon, you know how she is", does that rectify everything?
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Post by Addison's girl on Jul 13, 2012 6:43:11 GMT -5
No but then he should have walked away. He knew how she was from the beginning. If waht she did kept hurting him he should have left.
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Post by imdavidsgirl on Jul 13, 2012 19:38:33 GMT -5
true you wonder why did they both stick around so long with so much pain between them? why not sell agency ? get away from each other? but i agree Maddie did more wrong in my eyes but they both did wrong both made mistakes both couldn have changed thigns. yes david should have been more forceful with her after they got together but he didnt do that why? he wanted to please her i think and make maddie happy in order to keep her maybe? but he didnt keep her by sayign yes maddie lets make pacts . UGH
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